Meet the Board - Frances Forbes

“I love the idea that we want to put as much love and effort into this organization and for our members as we would for ourselves. What we take for granted, expecting love and comfort, is something I want to bring (and more) to our members.”

Frances Forbes has called Longmont home for nearly three decades, bringing a deep love for community and connection to everything she does. Now a valued board member at Recovery Café Longmont, she shares how her personal ties and passion for service led her to support the Café’s mission.

LH: Hi Frances! Could you start off with how long you’ve been on the board at RCL?

FF: I joined the board in December of 2024.

LH: Where are you from?

FF: Originally, I’m from Boise, Idaho – but I have lived in Longmont longer than I’ve lived anywhere else and consider this my hometown.

LH: What is your professional background?

FF: I spent over a decade as an HOA manager (one of the most hated people on the planet!). I love taking care of communities and properties. Last year, I was hired by the Longmont Chamber of Commerce, and I started as an office administrator, but I am transitioning towards more of the operations side. Every day is something new!

LH: How did you first get connected with the Café?

FF: I am a member of Central Longmont Presbyterian Church – so I was aware of the Café in that capacity and recognized its importance to the community. Then, I was at a neighborhood peace and safety meeting where the Café had a presence, and met my husband (who was a member at the time) Ryan. So, beyond RCL’s presence in the Longmont community, I know the Café was crucial to the healing of one of the most important people in my life and that’s what got me involved.

LH: What was your “Yes” moment for joining the board?

FF: Hearing Ryan talk about the work of the Café and attending events like Open Mic, I could see the impact on its members. It’s clear that those who are in recovery, and are part of a community like the Café, are committed to growth. When I was asked to be on the board, I knew I’d bring whatever skills I could contribute to support this important work.

I’m so impressed with the dedication of the board; they take the Café and representing the members so seriously and it makes me want to bring the best that I can to this organization.

LH: How would you describe the role of a board member to someone who’s never served on one?

FF: Ooh. Interesting. If you’ve never interacted with or served on a board, it can feel like this nebulous “they.” In reality, it brings together everyday people with many backgrounds and perspectives in cooperation to accomplish and support a goal.

LH: What part of our mission speaks to you the most?

FF: When I joined the board, I read Killian Noe’s book, “Descent Into Love.” I love the idea that we want to put as much love and effort into this organization and for our members as we would for ourselves. What we take for granted, expecting love and comfort, is something I want to bring (and more) to our members.

LH: Has there been a moment during your time on the board that’s reminded you why this work is important?

FF: Almost every time we meet. There are so many people hurting and substance abuse, mental health issues, being unhoused – it reaches everyone. It reminds me that we need spaces like this now more than ever.

LH: From your perspective, what makes the Café unique?

FF: I’ve never encountered anything like it. I’m 52 years old and I’ve never found a place where the basis is community. Welcoming people and showing them radical hospitality, and then helping them to overcome, shows them how valuable they are and gives them a space to belong. How can you not grow into your best self?

LH: What does community mean to you?

FF: You can come at it from a lot of angles – but I think the crux of it is that it’s where you belong.

LH: What are your hopes for the Café over the next few years?

FF: I want to see us maintain what we’re doing and grow it. The staff is constantly addressing whatever comes up to improve upon the services.

I also look forward to having a bigger space where more people can come – the members deserve to be lavished on with such an incredible, beautiful space.

LH: What is your favorite Café event you’ve attended?

FF: Open Mic Night. The things the members create and the way they support each other makes me so proud to be a part of this. It feels like family – it’s safe, you’re seen and you’re valued.

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LH: What are your hobbies and interests?

FF: Lots of interests, mostly around reading and learning – I could read a textbook and find fun in that. I also love walking, especially around Longmont, and having monthly game nights with my family.

LH: What is the best book you’ve read recently?

FF: I used to love reading ghost stories – I’ve now taken to listening to them as podcasts, as my life is a lot busier now!

LH: What’s your favorite food?

FF: Anything with melted cheese on it.

LH: Do you prefer movies or TV series?

FF: I can get into a good TV series, but I’m terrible at walking away when I’m watching. Commitment level-wise, movies work better for me – there’s an ending and then I can go to bed!

LH: What is something you never leave the house without?

FF: Clothes. And chapstick!

LH: Who is your role model?

FF: I feel very blessed to have a lot of role models, but my consistent answer has been my parents. They never stopped growing up – they are so open to learning and changing their viewpoints. I don’t know any two people who are more generous.

LH: What does the perfect day look like for you?

FF: Just hanging out with my husband!